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How to Write A Great
Personal Ad
If this is your first time visiting an internet personals site - these
tips will help you write a successful personal ad. If you follow
these simple rules, you can place an ad that should fill your email
with potential mates or dates.
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Be Honest
That's what I said, be honest. You would be better off
not lying about things such as your personal statistics. I
mean come on, if you're only 5'7", don't say you are 6 feet
tall - what do you tell him if you meet? That you shrunk?
Plus, being honest from the start means you won't have to
remember what you lied about later.
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Give Them A
Decent Description
Try not to leave anything unanswered, most people are looking
for someone with common interests, and if you and he/she both like
eating raw oysters, that might be the key to the match.
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Post A Great
Photo
And don't use the excuse that you don't own a digital camera.
Everyone knows someone that knows someone that has one, or you can
use a friend's scanner to copy your favorite Polaroid. So
clean up, put on your best smile, and get that picture!
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Don't Act TOO
Perfect
You will scare someone away if you act like the
"perfect" partner, besides, you're aren't the perfect
partner. If you were, you wouldn't be placing an ad, you
would have them lining up outside your door. Just have fun
with it, let go a little bit. If you like a little BDSM, let
them know. Like I said before, you never know what your
match will be.
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Don't Act Too
Serious
Again, you don't want to scare them away. Let loose a bit,
play around a little. Everyone enjoys someone that knows how
to have fun.
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Tell Them What
You Want
If you're a femme-boy looking for a bear, or a butch lesbian
looking for a femme-grrl, then you have to say these things.
Otherwise, you might not get the replies that you want. Be
specific on the area you reside in as well, unless you don't mind
something long distance.
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Are You Looking
For a LTR?
If not, let them know. That way you won't have your
replies full of people that want to settle down and
"raise" that proverbial family. There are just as
many people out there just looking for a good time as there are
people looking for something serious. Of course, if you ARE
looking for something serious, say it in your ad so you don't have
to play the flirting game.
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There's Always
the Edit Button
Go back and update your ad on a regular basis so people that
read it will know that you're serious. If you saw an ad that
interested you, and then saw that it had not been revised for over
two years, would you answer it?
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This is the
Biggie - HAVE FUN
Life is meant to be enjoyed, and everyone loves to play.
You can find some great people out there that you can have fun
with. You never know, the ad you place just might be the one
that your match was waiting for. So what are you waiting
for? Just CLICK
HERE to get started, and good luck!
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